fantasy/reality.........

by definition a Fantasy is ;

1. The creative imagination; unrestrained fancy. 
2. Something, such as an invention, that is a creation of the fancy.
3. A capricious or fantastic idea; a conceit.Fiction characterized by highly fanciful or supernatural elements. I.e An example of such fiction.
4. An imagined event or sequence of mental images, such as a daydream, usually fulfilling a wish or psychological need.

and reality is :

1. The quality or state of being actual or true.
2. One, such as a person, an entity, or an event, that is actual: "the weight of history and political realities" (Benno C. Schmidt, Jr.).
3. The totality of all things possessing actuality, existence, or essence.
4. That which exists objectively and in fact: Your observations do not seem to be about reality.

all these are from answers.com. the fact is do these answers satisfy me?  what do you call something real but its difficult to attain? 

a goal?

let me speak in love terms * a cleaner having a crush on the hottest guy in the work place, it seems far fetched but the heart wants what it wants.. so is this a fantasy? if hes not into class and all she may just get her man so i need a word to define this...............

a graduate out of school , going from place to place looking for a job is jobless so thats reality but a woman who has miscarried lots of children should she be called barren ?? or is the idea of her having a child a fantasy?



words do us no justice and fantasy and reality are based on our view to life. so today i sit on my desk and fantasize about driving a Porsche, i cant drive by the way but im going to  learn pretty soon, like tomorrow,  i dont want reality telling me to face facts so im sitting in my hot mini, with my seat belt on and i am driving away, dont wait up im going to be home late.